The return home, however, was not such a breeze. With head down, I peddled hard into the wind and made much slower progress. My thighs started to burn.
Resistance brings pressure, sweat, and sometimes pain; I’m not just talking about the kind that comes from biking into the wind.
Life presents us with resistance. In school, we have to work hard and figure out teacher expectations to earn good grades. In our jobs, we might have to deal with unpleasant customers, co-worker conflicts, or project deadlines. Good relationships also don’t come naturally but require honesty and patience to resolve differences.
We writers know all about resistance. Editors may return our queries with polite or critical rejections. We may have a deadline looming, and suddenly, our fingers feel frozen on the keyboard.
Chances are, most of us complain about resistance.
However, let’s take a different approach. If teachers handed out A’s like candy, we would never discover our weaknesses or learn from our mistakes and improve. If editors drew smiley faces on every writer’s proposal, the market would be flooded with half-developed plots and weak characters (books no one wants to read).
Resistance makes us better, stronger. We can’t grow without it.
The need for endurance
In the Bible, the Apostle Paul explained the need for a character trait that knows how to handle resistance. This quality is endurance. In I Corinthians 9:24-27, he compared the Christian life to an athlete who can win a race only if he exercises self-control and disciplines his body. Resistance training helps the athlete succeed when the race counts.
The truth is, however, that none of us enjoys push-backs and disappointment. To appreciate them, we have to look beyond the moment.
One way to help keep the goal in mind is to remember past finish lines crossed. I’m a visual person, so you’ll see pictures of physical dares I’ve met around my house (usually in the form of adventures with my brother). Recently, I’ve also started keeping a gratitude journal. These entries remind me that God has always been faithful in tough spots in the past, and He’s not going to quit on me (even when I’m tempted to quit on myself).
Starting is easy. Finishing is hard work. But it’s worth it.
The prize before us
Do you not know that in a race all the runners run, but only one receives the prize? So run that you may obtain it (I Corinthians 9:24).
As I biked home, I turned my gaze upward. In the sky, birds glided and swooped. The same wind that fought against me allowed them to soar.
When you’re faced with resistance, whether in your spiritual walk or personal life, press on. Set your eyes on the prize. (Make sure you have one picked out before you start!)
The prize I’m running for is to hear my Savior Jesus Christ tell me well done one day:
- Well done for loving the people in your life, even when they’re hard to love.
- Well done for being faithful where I place you, even when you’d rather be somewhere else.
- Well done for listening for my voice, even when I seem silent.
- Well done for writing the words and stories I’ve given you to tell, even if you never know what impact (if any) they will have.
One day, I pray I’ll hear words like these. Until that day, I say amen to what Paul said in Philippians 3:14.
I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus.
What prize do you have in sight? What well done do you want to hear?
Today, embrace the resistance. One day, the wind that buffets you may give you wings.
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